Tuesday, July 29, 2008
To figure out how to get it going and keep it going in life.
learn to program yourself rather than simply hope for success.
we are what we repeatedly do . excellence ,then is not an act,but a habit.
there's never going to be a time in your life when you will just wake up and b problem free . key is to not panic or think you have dont someting wrong when you do encounter problems,when problems arise ,and they invariably will.
the first thing you should tell yourself is
''i can handle this.''
we dont need to overdramatize our problems,but making light of them doesnt make them go away ;they are stil our problems and that counts.
therefore,they are worthy of our efforts and energies.
no matter what you problem is,there is a way for you to deal with it if you will just work it our .successful people succeed not because they dont have problems
but cause they know how to deal with their problems
promise yourself that from now on you will make a plan to deal with each new problem rather than to deny or ignore that it exists manage your life
you have to be your own life manager; you are the only life manager you willl ever have
you cant fire yourself if you are doing a bad job
you can only improve on th job you are doing
confront your problems head
-on and deal with them constructively rather than create a whole
new set of problems due to your reaction
- or lack of reaction
- to th original problem.
''losers let it happen.winners make it happen''
Managing your life is not an event ;its an ongoing process your will never ''fix'' it to the point where there is nothing else wil ever have to be done.
once you begin to ''get it''
once you begin to understand how you can put your life together
so that you are in charge of what happens to you
there is a natural tendency to relax.you know you've make some progress
you know you've learned some strong fundamentals from previous affirmations
you know you've developed some new insights into the way you behave
BUT DONT STOP WORKING NOW ACCEPT that life management is a process
the key to success is perserverance
getting the job done whether you feeel like it not.
candid by SHORT & fierce ..
CLASSMATES
CLASSMATES
bian &gen
in AVA room =D
dumb face =x
sweets~
OMG!can you see the white white thing?? seen it from e sky falling down
mysterious seh!!!!
anyway just uploaded some photos ;waiting for sweets t send me =D
hahas
;whether you like it a not,you're just creating your own experience
The only choice you have is whether you create a good or bad experience
planning is great but doing is better
ooohhhhhhh baby's dota-ing ZZzzz
}7:38 PM
DEFINATION OF LOVE
DEFINATION OF LOVE